You may have Physical abuse or Verbal abuse, some signs include but are NOT limited to:
Checking your cell phone or email without permission
Making you have sex with them even if you say no. (even if you are married you do have the right to say no!)
Constantly putting you down (telling you "you will never amount to anything", "you can't do that", "your cooking sucks", "this house isn't clean enough, what kind of woman are you?"
Extreme jealousy or insecurity
Explosive temper
Isolating you from family or friends (making you believe that your family and friends are mean or unfair to you, or that they are wrong all the time and that they are jealous of the time you may be spending with your boyfriend/husband)
Making false accusations (accusing you of cheating)
Physically hurting you in any way (grabbing your arms or wrists, pushing you etc.)
Possessiveness
Telling you that your ugly, fat, too skinny, stupid.
Telling you what to do (how to dress, not to wear make-up)
Signs Of Love
There are also ways that they can show love in both Physical & Verbal ways. Mind you, not all men are affectionate but there is a fine line between a man who just isn't romantic and a man who abuses you. Signs of love would include but will NOT be limited to:
Telling you He believes in you.
Telling you he loves you or showing it in different ways.
Telling you how much he cares.
Only putting his hands on you to make love, hug, kiss, tickle, massage.
Telling you you're beautiful even when you think you look your worst.
Being there when you need him the most (without even asking)
Makes you feel like your the only woman in the world.
Puts a smile on your face in the morning when you wake up and never goes to bed mad or sad.